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TED - To overcome challenges, stop comparing yourself to others | Dean Furness

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Short Summary

Main recommendation: stop measuring yourself against peers and instead track and build your own personal average, comparing each day or workout only to your own prior performance. Dean Furness, a wheelchair marathoner who became a paraplegic after a 2011 hay-bale accident, says this mindset let him rebuild after a spinal cord injury and go on to complete marathons. He frames bad days as manageable by moving on quickly so the good outweighs the bad.

Key Points

  • Personal average means comparing yourself to your own past performance, not to others. Furness argues that measuring height, weight, test scores, and salary against peers misses the point.
  • Comparing to people who were stronger or more experienced caused him frustration and nearly derailed his progress. Early on, his team's aggressive weight-machine session left him unable to straighten his arms for three days.
  • Bad days shrink in importance when you move on quickly. Shorter bad periods give more room for good ones, so your overall average rises.
  • He chose to focus on who he was at that point and where he needed to go, rather than who he used to be before the injury.

Details Worth Noting

  • Concrete instructions: Track every workout, every day, and aim only to match or beat your own previous day's performance. Do not benchmark yourself against elite athletes you research online, since doing so can stop you from continuing.
  • Concrete instructions: When a bad day or session happens, move on to the next thing as quickly as possible to limit the time spent in that scenario. Decide for yourself whether a day was bad, based on your own average.
  • Concrete instructions: Set a short-term challenge (for example, a half marathon in ten weeks) and build toward it with consistent tracking rather than a formal plan. He noted he had no workout plan and no knowledge of required pace when first challenged.
  • Concrete instructions: Accept support from a coach and peers, and stay involved in events. His coach suggested the Chicago Marathon, and he later kept training with friends who ride bikes with him and help track pace.
  • Context: The injury was a five-foot, 700-pound hay bale falling from a tractor loader in December 2011, shattering his T5 and T6 vertebrae. He was told he would probably never walk again.
  • Context: He completed a half marathon in his wheelchair about ten weeks after first being challenged, and later completed the Chicago Marathon, which was his seventh marathon at the time of the talk.
  • Context: He reported finishing the Chicago race 30 seconds per mile faster than his prior Chicago times, though he did not set a personal record.

Bottom Line

Judging progress against your own past self, rather than against peers, is what let Furness rebuild after a catastrophic injury, so track your own average and let it guide your next step.