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Short Summary
Main recommendation: For a Shabbat meal for about 15 mixed guests with easy prep, serve a side of salmon as the fish course, brisket as the main, and roasted fingerling potatoes with a green salad, generally skipping the soup course if you have many kids (though soup can be made ahead if desired). Use make-ahead and room-temperature-friendly dishes so the meal stays easy to manage.
Key Points
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A side of salmon is presented as a neutral, crowd-pleasing fish course that works for Ashkenazi and Sephardi guests and kids alike, and it is quick to prepare.
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Brisket is named as the best prep-ahead main for a crowd because it holds well if the meal starts late, and chicken on the bone is suggested as a second main that kids can easily eat.
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The speaker suggests skipping the soup course on Friday night with a big crowd, especially with kids, while noting soup can be made ahead if you want one.
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For Shabbos day, the speaker suggests an Asian-themed first course, a chili (or cholent) main with a grilled deboned dark meat protein, and a colorful grilled vegetable or Cobb salad platter that needs little warming space.
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Individual portions such as kugel cups or carrot muffins are presented as a way to add a special touch with little effort.
Details Worth Noting
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Concrete instructions: For the salmon, use dill, parsley, salt, pepper, and lots of fresh lemon juice, or do a honey sesame side; serve it whole at the table with a scallion wasabi sauce and either a fresh tomato and onion salsa or a fruit salsa. Serve challah and a few dips on the side.
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Concrete instructions: If buying store-bought dips, plate them in your own serving dishes so the presentation looks elegant.
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Concrete instructions: For soup, if serving one, dress up chicken soup with julienne vegetables or serve soup in a hollowed-out acorn squash or bread bowl; matzo balls freeze well.
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Concrete instructions: For brisket, the speaker says it tolerates delays in serving and is best made ahead.
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Concrete instructions: Serve chicken on the bone with plenty of extra drumsticks for kids, and pair sweet brisket with savory chicken (or savory brisket with sweet chicken), keeping sides simple.
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Concrete instructions: For potatoes, use fingerling potatoes (purple and white-skinned), sliced in half, made right before the meal and kept warm; pair with a green leafy salad or green vegetable.
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Concrete instructions: For dessert, present a bundt cake pre-plated, with whipped cream or non-dairy ice cream; for non-dairy whipped cream, use coconut milk.
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Concrete instructions: For Shabbos day first course, options include spiced edamame with soy sauce, toasted sesame oil, and black and white sesame seeds, an Asian cabbage salad, sushi salad, or Asian noodle salad.
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Concrete instructions: For a Shabbos day main, the speaker's husband's chili (published in the New York Times) can be adapted with rice or wheat berries instead of barley and chickpeas instead of red kidney beans; a chicken cholent can replace meat cholent.
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Concrete instructions: For the protein, grill a deboned dark meat (which can be served at room temperature) rather than frying cutlets.
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Concrete instructions: For the grilled vegetable platter, arrange a bed of lettuce on a flat platter with tomatoes, carrots, cucumbers, corn, grilled vegetables, red onions, and mushrooms in neat rows, optionally adding cut protein.
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Concrete instructions: For dessert, keep it light and fruity, such as ambrosia or tea biscuit and sorbet towers; leftover salmon can become a salmon salad.
Bottom Line
Plan a Shabbat menu around make-ahead, room-temperature-friendly dishes and individual or platter presentation, so the host spends little time in the kitchen while the table still looks impressive.
